hm… if i looked at the question in that light then i’d pick ones that really exemplify specific genres while still being approachable (aka: Sim City instead of Dwarf fortress for micro management games) and i’d pick things like, Shadow of the Colossus, Bioshock, Journey, Minecraft, etc.
However, if i wanted to just pick my all All-Time-Favorite-It-Would-Be-Awesome-If-You-Loved-These-Games-Too!!! list, it would be:
Dragon Age Origins (Loved this one!)
Tales from the Borderlands (Seriously, such good characters and story! Also amazing intro music scenes)
Dwarf Fortress (because FUN!)
Fallout: New Vegas (For some reason i got more immersed in that one then in Fallout 3)
Deus Ex: Human Revolution (I don’t know, i just love this game)
Kingdom Hearts get’s an honorable mention as it was really the game that got me into video gaming <3